Feb 14 2011

Valentine’s Day in Korea

I’ve never been very into Valentine’s Day. It used to really annoy me when I was single. Now it only mildly annoys me. When I lived in Korea I had to deal with twice the annoyance.

In South Korea they really take Valentine’s Day to the extreme. On February 14th women are supposed to give chocolate to men they fancy. (I love saying fancy now. It’s oh so English of me even though my writing of dates is still not so English.) Then March 14th is called White Day. On White Day the men have to give gifts to the women that gave them chocolate on Valentine’s Day. That means there’s no just one, but two Valentine-like days for people who don’t like Valentine’s Day, like me, to suffer through.

The fun on the 14th of the month doesn’t end there. April 14th is Black Day. Black Day was my favorite. On Black Day the people who are single and had to suffer through Valentine’s Day and White Day get together to eat ja jang myun. Ja jang myun is noodles with pork and vegetables in a black bean paste sauce. I used to eat it all the time in Korea. Delicious!

But wait there’s more! If you’re still single on May 14th don’t fret. That’s Yellow Day. On Yellow Day all of the people who have somehow managed to remain single get together to eat curry. Korean curry is okay, but I would much rather have some more ja jang myun.

The holidays on the 14th keep coming throughout the year, they’re just a lot less recognized. I’m not going to list them all here, but if you’re curious here’s a link to a blog that has. Click here.


Feb 15 2007

Valentine’s Day

I think most of you already know that I’m not really into the holidays. I have a friend that’s loves Valentine’s Day. The other day she called me and asked, “What’re you guys doing for Valentine’s Day?”
“Nothing,” I answered. She wasn’t surprised. I’m never doing anything for Valentine’s Day.
She laughed and said, “We’re such opposites. You know I’m all about Valentine’s Day.”
She really is. She’s the person who buys the red teddy bear that says “I love you” when you squeeze its belly or any kind of red and white, or red or white stuffed animals locked in an embrace. She once bought kissing Valentine teddy bears. When they smooched, their cheeks glowed red. I see things like that in stores all the time and wonder if anyone besides my friend buys them. If you have a stuffed monkey holding an “I love you” heart or a statue of a mouse munching the word “Love” in a block of cheese, admit it. There’s no need to feel ashamed.
We didn’t let Valentine’s Day pass us by without celebrating. We were up at five in the morning taping hearts to our son’s door as a Valentine’s Day surprise. That’s the best way to spend Valentines Day–cheap yet meaningful.
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